Singled Out

All my single ladies, now put your hands up!

What comes to your mind when you hear the word single? To me, it can mean three things.
1) If a guy or girl is single, it means that he/she is indepent, doesnt feel the need to be someone and is taking time to figure out to improve themselves; that way when they are in a relationship they know what they want and can be their best to their partner. 
2) He/she got dumped or ended their relationship with their partner for some reason and is heartbroken and hasnt gotten over it and cant seem to find another.
3) He/she doesnt want a relationship and is hooking up with many people at a time. They dont want to be tied down and they want to be able to make their rounds.

Some people may look at being single unacceptable, and maybe they feel unworthy of someone or feel like there is no one interested.

There are also people that I know that hate being single and because of this they simply date whoever they can get or who is interested and doesnt really have a connection with that person. They basically just want to have the ability to say that they're with someone. This is something that I personally would not do. It's pointless and not beneficial in any way. It's a waste of time! If this is you, think twice. What's more important to you? A title/label/status? or Waiting to find the person you REALLY feel an attraction to? Think about it.

If you're single because you cant move on from your previous relationship, I can imagine that is probably a tough position to be in. But know that it is healthier for you to pick yourself and move on. Look for something better because obviously there was something about your previous relationship that proved itself to not work and be a problem to lead to the break-up, so why would you want to go through that again if you run back to that person?  There is more than one person for you out there. Look for a new beginning! This time you will know what works for you and what doesnt, so now you can have a more successful, happier relationship than before(:

For all of those who are single....being single is NOT bad! Every one of us will got through a time when we're single. Before we find the person we're meant to be with, and especially in between relationships. Trust me, I know when you're single you are going to feel alone at times, and feel like there may be no hope to find someone. You have time! You're not limited to the people in school! Boys/girls everywhere are looking for the same thing as you are, so dont feel alone.

There are so many advantages to being single! No jealousy, curiousity of where he/she is, fears of being cheated on, you can flirt with whoever you want, no "why didnt you call me last night when you said you would?", you can hang with other guys and girls, no mess between you're bestfriend and boyfriend/girlfriend....the list goes on!!!! So girls and guys, if you're single be yourself, be confident and step out in your best swag.