Sometimes it happens, we can't control who we like, and sometimes that person already happens to be with someone---what if that person is with your best friend?You're caught between following your feelings and betraying your best friend or setting your feelings aside and saving the relationship between you and your best friend. Which one do you choose? Honestly, if you get in between your best friends relationship whether or not you do like the guy, she'll probably hold some resentment towards you.
If you can't put your feelings aside my best advice is to talk to your best friend, AFTER the relationship has ended and both have moved on. If there's still a connection between you and the guy, you can't keep it from her for ever. If she has truly moved on and she is your best friend, she should understand. However, don't be surprised if she compares her past relationship with him and your current relationship. There may still be some left over feelings, and it's probably going to be hurtful to see her ex with her bestie. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel if you had to see your ex with your best friend? It's probably going to be hard, for you and your friend, but remember: 1) Never ruin a friendship over a relationship that may not last through high school. 2) If she truly cares about you she will TRY to understand.
If they don't break up, you're probably going to have to move on. It's the only possibility that won't hurt anyone. Remember that you will meet other people, and he's not the only one you'll have a connection to.
Remember, "sisters before misters", you'll always need your girlfriends when guys do fail you. You need to decide which matters more to you, as long as you can live with your choice, you've made the right decision for you.
xoxo KKSM
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ReplyDeleteSecond: I can honsetly say from experience that "friends with benefits," or what ever new age term you would like to call it, never works! However, the only exception to this is if you already friends with the person you have been "fooling" around with. You cannot just start "messing" around with someone, who is not a friend just an aquaitence, and except to come out of it fine, it just doesn't happen. Though if you and your "friend" are/were truly friends before you started fooling around there is a possibility that it may work to your advantage, because of the confortability alotted.
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