I don't know who I like!?!

Some girls find them in the situation of liking, or having feelings, for someone else, while in a current relationship. Sometimes the feelings lead to a breakup, and other times the feelings pass. These types of feelings are difficult to get through. You feel like you are betraying the person you're with, but you still don't get why you're having these feelings.

So, what do you do?

These confusing feelings are difficult to sift through. Meeting someone new and having an instant connection, makes it seem new and exciting. When you've been with someone for a while, it's difficult to remember the spark that brought you two together. Yet, you shouldn't have to continuously remind yourself why you're together. Being with that person should be enough, the spark should always be there. Things have probably settled down between you two, and now this new exciting boy comes into your life, and you just can't seem to settle your feelings.

Remeber this, if you are just bored maybe it is time for something new. People and feelings change, it's not a big deal as long as you don't make it one. You meet new people all the time, some you're going to have a connection to, but are you happy with who you have? Can you see yourself without them?

It is after all high school, this shouldn't be your main concern, but as a teenage girl it's definitely bothersome. If you haven't noticed already, I personally think the likelihood of a long term relationship in high school is unlikely. It's very rare to see high school sweethearts, it's just a fact, the odds of high school relationships working out are unlikely. However, in the current situation it feels like a big deal. If you don't make it a big deal it doesn't have to be one.

So, you break up with your boy friend for this new guy, don't immediately jump into this new relationship. That would be just a slap in the face to your ex, and if you cared you'd have the decency to let him get over you. If the feelings pass, remember you're probably with a great guy who cares about you a lot, you were honestly just bored and was looking for something new and exciting.

Some people forget though, those relationships get old too. You need to be happy and if that means with someone else, that's OK. Just remember, you're what 16 , 17? Date around, meet new people, settle down when you meet someone who stands out from the crowd to you. Don't rush into something and then regret it later, it's just not worth it.

xoxo KKSM