Long Distance Relationships:In high school despite what many think, your still a kid who is subject to their parent's wishes. If they decide they want to move to a new neighborhood, or even states in some cases, you really have no choice but to follow them. Some people are really excited to start new and fresh, others find the tear away from family and friends difficult. Especially when you're a teen in a relationship. If you, or your bf/gf are moving, it's time to decide where the relationship stands.
Standing Apart: If you two decide to go your separate ways, it's understandable in most cases. Whoever is moving, they're guaranteed to meet new people wherever they move. It's be hard if you when you don't see them on a regular basis. People grow apart and feelings change, it's okay, as long as you end it on a good note it's fine for both ends.
Standing Together: If you decide to stay together, all the more power to you, but it's going to take some work. Unless you have an accessible car, and live relatively close by, there's a possibility you will be able to drive to see your bf/gf. Also depending, if their parents are okay with you staying with them. This could work out okay, but it'll be challenging. Don't be naive about that facet.
If they move farther then a drive away, there are always alternatives. Getting together during a break or during the summer is always an option. Plus with the technology cellphones, Facebook, BBM, Skype etc.. you can always be in contact. Whatever you decide, try to be as realistic as possible, make sure there is no excessive train on the relationship due to the move, because if there is then it might be a good idea to break up.
P.S. you can always write letters to one another which is like 100 % more romantic than a stupid text. FYI.
xoxo KKSM
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